Posts by Been there

I have found (maybe you will too) that it is very helpful to write a letter to the person you can't communicate with (for what ever reason) and lay everything out (also very good for anger). Maybe you can go and find the prettiest card that says what you want in it, then sit down and talk (write) to Krystal. My Dearest Krystal................... tell her how much you loved her.........................how much you missed her................how sad it was that you couldn't see her grow up.................tell her everything you feel.

Give it a kiss, fold it up and put it in the card (or just an envelope) and put it away in a special place. You may want to do it a couple times. Give yourself a release to let her know how special she was to you.

I hope this is of some help to you. My thoughts are with you as you grieve.

KY Been

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Is it normal to feel jealousy???

by butalbee in

it's been over between us for months now, didn't end very good either.

i do regret hurting him like i did, but at the time, i needed to be free of him and any/all dubs.

i've finally moved on w/ my life, i have a wonderful new man in my life--who treats me like a princess--and i feel lucky to be w/ him.

Been there

Bee,

It is very normal to be Jealous. As I write I can even feel your jealousy.

Especialy the first time you saw them together. You are mourning what might have been. Not what was but what MIGHT have been. And you really don't want him to be happy. You want him to be miserable missing you and missing what MIGHT have been, if only he hadn't have been such a jerk. He's not right for you, but it hurts to think he might be right for someone else. If he is good enough for someone else??? "Then maybe he's okay and there is something wrong with me"??? "Maybe things weren't as bad as I thought" (don't second guess yourself, they were) You don't want him but you don't want anyone else to want him either!

This really is pretty normal. Grieving the death of a relationship. Mourning the loss of what might have been. Knowing there is no turning back (not that you wanted to) once you have been replaced. Knowing what you know, replace your jealousy for him to pity for her. She is young and seeing stars.

Your new guy is perfect! He treats you like a princess! He's everything you want! PLEAD TEMPORARY INSANITY. Shower him with love and affection for putting up with your silliness, ask for forgiveness, make it up to him. AND MOVE ON. You are normal.

IMHO, my 2 cents.

edited for bad spelling (did I miss any?)

Edited by - Been There on 26 August 2002 6:30:41

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Ozzie's Weekend Poll #17

by ozziepost in

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how's the weekend goin'?

been too busy to think on really serious things?

that's good, because this poll doesn't require too much thinking!!

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13. Armageddon

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Assembly Priceless

by BugParadise in

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i don't know if this has been posted before but i thought it was pretty funny .

Been there

LMAO!

That guy has got to be SNORING! The guy behind him is either yawning or (since they are packed in like sardines) angry about the fact this guy in front paid for one seat, but is taking up two.

It was always so hot in those places, the boredom and heat always made me fall asleep as a kid. It wasn't so bad in the summer but in the winter I'd be all wet from sweating while asleep then have to go outside and freeze my butt off. Or you take your shoes off then when you wake up to go home your feet have swollen and you can't get your shoes back on. Those where the days.

Edited by - Been There on 25 August 2002 13:35:59

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laser surgery

by finnrot in

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i just got back from newport beach, where i had laser surgery on my eyes.

since the 5th grade, i have had to wear glasses.

each year my eyes have have needed a new prescription for stronger glasses into my 30's.

Been there

I don't know much about this, I know you can have surgery for people that can't see far away but do they have surgery for people who can't see to read? I have glasses all over the house. It's driving me crazy. I can't read anything without glasses anymore. I would love to do something surgicaly. Anyone know of any nutritional ways to help reverse this? I know it's normal but it's happening so fast.

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Two Jehovahs Witnesses Beheaded!

by deceit in

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muslim rebels in the southern philippines have beheaded two christian hostages, part of a group of jehovah's witnesses seized on tuesday.

the two severed heads were found by the philippines military on the remote southern island of jolo.

the army chief on jolo, brigadier general romeo tolentino, said that a note was attached to one of the heads, saying: "those who do not believe in allah will suffer the same fate.